When you find back the one you love fully trust and cherish, whenever feasible and possible, at that instant, try to be the flower that blossoms before the loving and warm sun.
Greet him with love, warm smiles, and an open and loving heart.
This is a huge gift for a man, and even before saying hello, can melt a difficult or stressed moment, and help him immediately connect with his body and his feminine, loving side. It won’t cost you anything, but the value of the time you are about to spend together is greatly enhanced, and the whole experience will be so much better, just because it started off so magnificently.
If you have never done this before, it can feel awkward, and wierd. Everything was akward and wierd the first few times you tried it, but it comes with practice. If he asks you why you are different, you can tell him that you are trying something out, because you want the 2 of you to be closer, and more connected. If you have chosen your moment well, he sh
Being this way requires a little preparation – so before you see him, calm yourself – centre – visualize yourself as millions of atoms all spaced out, and using your mind power, bring them all flying inward, to recomplete yourself. Feel yourself become more and more complete, solid, whole, and grounded.
Imagine sending down roots, feel them pushing their way through the ground, deeper and deeper. Feel the earth move around them as they gently but firmly push it out of the way and dig ever deeper. Gently but firmly collect your negative energy from all parts of your body, and channel it down, into your root system, deeper and deeper into the earth – trusting the earth to recycle it, and let positive, loving energy flow up those roots, spreading out to fill your body, and rejuvenate you. Feel the positive energy coming up into your body, and know it is a gift from the planet.
Take slow, deep, even breaths. Slow down, connect to your environment. Feel the very essence of those things that surround you. If you can, slow to notice the infinite detail of what you are doing, what you are experiencing. The sights. The smells. The shapes. The colours. The textures. Blend with them. Be with them, and yet apart, – whole, complete.
Once you have this depth of being, focus it on bringing this to your man. In the same way we love it when they are fully focussed on us, they love it too! Open up to him and let him feel you gently melting in his arms. Cherish his kisses, like delicious chocolate, that you savour. There is only you, and him. Let him lead. If you trust him implicitly, let him decide – especially in the little things. Forget your environment. Let your femininity blossom: relax, smile, lean very slightly back, so your whole body knows to slow down, and chill out. Know you are beautiful. Know you are loved, and very very special. Move in that knowledge. Embody it. Provide him with the beautiful woman you are, who speaks and moves with grace and deep inner power. Then see what happens. I would love to know how it goes for you….
*Obviously, this is not to be tried in a situation where you need to keep all your faculties alert, such as driving a car, operating heavy machinery, or doing anything that involves the health and safety of yourself or others.