Don’t try to compete with another woman – or another person to ‘be’ any type of person other than you already are.
If the desert tried to be a rainforest, it would be a disaster – the land is much too arid and dry, only small stumpy shrubs manage to subsist. It could never achieve the lush damp atmosphere, and the 80% humidity.

If a rain forest tried to be a desert, it would have to get rid of trees – leaving an ocean of stumps and millions of animals homeless. It would be a very sad and ugly place.

Neither tries to be the other, and thank goodness! What a disaster it would be. Each is magnificent, beautiful and breathtaking, because it is itself in a very pure and unadulterated way. Each totally ‘is’ in every way. Each has developed a very specific and complicated series of ecosystems, and is a wonder of nature: complete, pure, bringing an unparalleled experience, energy, and memories. Perfectly imperfect in its own expression.